oh no 50/50?

the poll i set up there...currently the votes are 50% to 50%?!
meaning there is no answer to my question that have been bothering me for quite a while lo?haha
so half of the ppl would still choose to be a formidable winner ar..?

hmm perhaps i should make the question even clearer la..err for example..when ppl takes advantage of you..err do u allow it and help them as long as u can..to gain merits..selfless..although u might rugi at times...?OR do u stay with your principal..stay strong..dare to say NO sternly yet in a polite manner...be a formidable...winner?

lol dont get me wrong..there isnt any specific problem that is bothering me..it just happened 2 me that this question appeared out of no where in my head and im trying to figure an answer out of it..haha

so once again...SOS?opinions dearest frenz?haha
which type of person do you choose to be?