i know...i do know that preteen stage is a stage where they tend to be more rebellious...make serious mistakes....keep lotz of things in their heart...
but i also know that it is a very crucial stage...it sorta determines who u are....dear sister..
Ive tried making sure that u do well in ur exams....and wished that u pass ur UPSR exams with flying colours....
but i really dono what can i do...to make sure that u go on the correct pathway...without her here to guide you...
especially when she isnt around...i belief its my responsibility.....
mom plays a crucial role in guiding a child through this stage i know....
and now she isnt here for you....will u be able to avoid those negative influence that exist in every nook and cranny of this complicated world?
she LIED.One lie after another..
and ive failed to notice those signs!
its only today that we found out through her friend's brother...
since when u have became so daring.... dear sister?
aunty may even cried when she found out..
its not exactly a big offense/mistake....but pls do not repeat it kay?
I wouldnt wana say what happened here..i wana keep ur image clean..and cute as u are..
I understand.i really do.
As i remember me being very rebellious and stubborn when i was 12 years old too...
Its just that i used to fight and quarrel...
whlist you keep things in your heart...and cry alone after being scolded...
is it guilt....or fury?
it freaks me out...
u and me know very well that dad loves u so...
will dad be able to guide/counsel/inspire you?just like what a mother does....?
or will i be able to do so?
these words....are from the bottom of my heart...but i seriously do not know how can i convey them to you....
lots of feelings..lots of thoughts...but i really am not sure what should i do...
just praying hard that you will still eventually grow up to be a cheerful innocent girl~
eventually~
love,
jie jie
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yeahhh.. adolescence.. but the fact that she's aware of her doings shows how it's a phase that we all have to go through...
let her know you'll be there.. you'll guide her =)
perhaps you don't have to take full guilt on yourself...
i guess this's what your sister has to go through, just like the rest of us...
she just need more time to see through her mistakes...
I know it's hard to talk to your sister now when she's keeping all to herself, trust me, I know, but don't give up...
She'll know that you have your back on her...
All the best!
Hey Shuen..
I know you're giving your best to the family and this isn't exactly what someone your age should be going through. But don't feel pressured your sisters' upbringing okay?
For the young lady you've been made into, I must say that your mom had done a FABULOUS job in bringing you up. But you musn't forget that making mistakes is also part of growing up.
As much as you want to protect your sister from getting hurt, remind yourself that communication is the key, above all.
Make her feel forgiven so that she dares to admit the next time, rather than letting her close the door.
I actually know nothing if compared to you. I have only one younger sibling, and unfortunately that one's 10 times more rebellious than yours.
But I guess preteen really IS like that. You'll need time to adjust to and understand her change just as she needs time to realise how much all of you love her. Ultimately, DON'T WORRY, EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY!
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